In 1997, when I first began to offer the Lee Silverman Voice Treatment (LSVT®) for persons with Parkinson’s (PWP), it was one of the few times when I would ask a spouse or other family member to NOT join us in therapy. The rationale for my decision and what I said to the patients was: “you walk in and out of my office with your voice, and you need to learn how to “play” the instrument.” I tried from the first day of speech therapy to help the person build a sense of “ownership” for the problem for which they were seeking help.
Communication, however, is not a singular process, and as time has gone on, I have learned that engaging a patient’s spouse or significant others in treatment may help them better understand how their own communication style or behaviors may support or limit the progress of their loved one. If the spouse of a patient, for example, has a hearing loss, but refuses hearing aids, it is likely that communication between the couple is going to remain unsatisfactory.
Couples have styles of communicating that have been laid down early in their relationships, and if married for many years, changing or modifying those behaviors will take conscious effort on the part of both persons. For the partner with speech and voice changes from Parkinson’s, they have a few options available to them including speech therapy and daily practice to improve or maintain clarity of speech. If they have mild or moderate cognitive problems that make self-monitoring of speech difficult, they may benefit from use of a speech aid such as Speech-Vive device or amplification.
When a patient tells me that it is just too difficult to communicate, and chooses instead to “not talk much,” this can leave the healthier spouse feeling lonely or in some instances, even resentful that they have been communicatively “abandoned” by their partner.
Studies have reported that as high as 90% of individuals with Parkinson’s disease have rated fatigue as one of their most prominent problems,including fatigue impact on communication. The constant conscious effort to express oneself, in what prior to Parkinson’s disease was implicit and below the level of conscious decision, has been reported as a considerable source of fatigue and individuals with Parkinson’s disease have described how they judge whether it is worth to use up limited energy on a conversation. Anticipation of fatigue might in itself gradually result in less motivation to engage in conversations, with subsequent social withdrawal[i]
If you live with, love, and communicate daily with someone with speech and voice changes from Parkinson’s, following are a few simple suggestions for improving communication:
Wait! Parkinson’s can cause slowness of thinking in much the same way it causes slowness of movement. Your partner with PD may need extra time to formulate their thought.
Employ the 10 second rule. Count to 10 before interrupting.
When at a physician’s office, restaurant, or any place, for that matter and communicating with a stranger, decide ahead of time if you are going to do all the talking or if you need to let the other person know that they should direct their questions or comments to the PWP.
If YOU have a hearing loss visit an audiologist for a hearing exam. If you have hearing aids, wear them. Speak to one another in the same room, and if you’re having an important conversation, mute the TV or other background noise.
Refer to your spouse by their name, or “my husband/wife,” DO NOT refer to them as “the patient.”
Communicative effectiveness can be variable throughout the day, affected by fatigue, on/off symptoms from medication, and stress. Don’t assume that if the PWP would just “try harder,” all would be better. They may be “trying” as hard as they can at that moment in time.
Join your partner/parent in an occasional speech therapy session so that you can learn more about the approach that is being used and support them in their practice at home.
[i] Patients’ and communication partners’ experiences of communicative changes in Parkinson’s disease. Inga-Lena Johanssona, Christina Samuelssona, and Nicole Müller. Disability and Rehabilitation2020, Vol. 42, No. 13, 1835-1843https://doi.org/10.1080/09638288.2018.1539875
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thank you for your comment, Bonnie. A blend of traditional and complimentary medicine may be a route that some will choose. Thank you for your support to caregivers.
My husband who had been diagnosed with Parkinson’s disease for 2 years at the age of 63 had all his symptoms reversed with Ayurveda medicine from naturalherbscentre. com after undergoing their Parkinson’s natural protocol. God Bless all Parkinson’s Caregivers. Stay Strong, take small moments throughout the day to thank yourself, to love your self, and pray to whatever faith, star, spiritual force you believe in and ask for strength. I can personally vouch for these remedy but you would probably need to decide what works best for you.
Thank you, Steve for your comment. When I teach a Voice Aerobics class, I invite spouses to participate. I ask them not to “coach” their partner, but rather, do the exercises along with them so that they have a better understanding of how PD might impact or restrict movement or voice.
Hello, Mary. I don’t read all of these but this one on communication caught my attention. I, too, coach my PD patients and spouses that slowing down of movement is mirrored in most by slowing down of thinking. To that I add “Accuracy is NOT the same thing as efficiency (which is what all of us whippersnappers think). You can still get cognitively from A to B, it just takes longer.” I also like your “10 second rule.” I could do better with that during my interviews.
Cheers!
Steve